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So many people find their best marriage advice before they deciding to get married. Surely no body said that marriage is an easy thing to do so that’s why people are commonly afraid for getting married. Let me tell you a story about me but lately it belongs to you.
Ny name is Bima and I’m the founder of this blog, I married a beautiful girl in 2009 after cheating twice and it seriously made my girl’s heart so hurt. Nina that was the name of beautiful girl that I married with, but finally I knew she was the best one for me, she’s the only person that always stay with me no matter where I am.
Now I’m gonna back to your side,
If you planning to have a wedding than I’m pretty sure that you will feel so happy with your life and I would like to say congratulation to you. But as person that been married for 9 years I can told you that it’s not an easy decision. It’s not only about fulfill your 69 wedding checklist but it’s also about how you live following your wedding.
It can be thousands of challenge that you and your husband must face in every single day so when you decide to get married I seriously suggest you to think over and over again.
Short Story About Me!
I live my life as a wedding photographer (by the way you could see my art works on portfolio) and I saw so many happy couple through my eyes. Proudly to say that what make me so happy with my job is I work together with wife, Nina, a girl that I choose to be my wife after cheating twice.
Actually I’m gonna tell you something the reason why I’m willing so deep in this job is because my childhood life was not good enough cause my parents marriage has broke when I was 4 than I have to live with my grand mother since she working in other city and just meet me once a month.
After over than 25 years I live only with my mom and share all the difficult things in life with her now I have somebody else who I can share everything with and you know the answer, she is Nina. I love her so much and I’m still love her till now.
The most important thing of her is because she can always remind me to my mom, she able be someone who can pull me up when I’m down and she always belong to the best person that always happy when I’m succeed.
If you already found your best person in your life, congratulation! cause only few people got than chance and I saw it through my eyes directly when I saw my couple walking down the aisle and kiss each other in front of beautiful resort where they belong to.
For me, the best thing for become wedding photographer is when several years following the wedding I still can see my couple stick together and love each other than when you able to achieve it I will be so happy for you.
Sometimes I see my tears down on my chick when I saw that my couple have a baby, very cute baby! and me and Nina always say congratulation to them. It’s not easy and definitely it is….
I even got a couple who brought me to Singapore to get pre wedding but they failed to get married and in other case I also found my couple who book me for renewal wedding anniversary which finally failed to continue their life because now they’ve been divorces.
I’m so down…definitely I’m so down! So if you are the 1st person who want to see your man standing by next to your shoulder, I will be the 1st person who not belong to your family that want to see you both stick together for the next decades
I will be so happy to capture your glorious moment and I will be so happy to fly thousand miles to your wedding venue even I have to leave my 3 kids at home just to be your eye witness but as a friend to friend I would say….go love each other till the death separately you away!
I already told you before that it’s not easy but you can try, you can put your hardest effort to stay together no matter where you are than you will find your happiness at the end.
Best Marriage Advice That I Could Share To You
I’m not a priest or super consultant about marriage but having over than 9 years marriage give me tons of inspiration that I could share with. I hope it helps you to prepare your marriage and surely I will be so happy for look at you stick each other till death.
1 – Be Good in Communication
Communication is the first thing that everyone should have, it’s been so essential to keep talking and telling everything with your spouse no matter good or bad.
My suggestion discuss all your problems in a simple way and get into the point, if someday you could ask your close friend or someone that you trusted than you will know that depth communication skill can solve any kind problem in this earth.
By the way between me and Nina are love eating so much and we used to use this method to discuss for any problem that we had. I’m not talking about fine dining cause sometimes we just go to nearest street food cart that eat together just to tell each other about what we had on this day.
2 – Have a Cheapest Holiday That You Can Provide
I try to have a short holiday every 2 months with my whole family, it’s only a weekend chill out where I can swim with my kids and let my wife stay relax for little bit.
I used to find the cheapest hotel nearby my town and stay there for a night, yeah it just 1 night but it is full of joy where we can have fun together. Book a hotel without a breakfast that cost less than $50/night is our best getaway method to get fresh and stay close each other.
3 – Cooking Together and Get Mesh in the Kitchen
That was working! all family member are stop their activities and goes to kitchen, we start to share our job such as cooking, slicing the beef, mix the eggs till wash the plate and my daughter love it so much!
Last Words from Me
Go get married and you will find the best part of your life through it.
What I could share with in this story is only those 3 things above, it’s worth it to do, no need so much money and surely you can do it with someone that you love to.
Last but not least just leave me a comment below if you wanna share some nice story about you, I will be in touch through my story every week and hope we can be a better friend in the next future.